Then a video statement from the Princess at her home in England was released and the world found out the people’s Princess of the twenty-first century did indeed have cancer. The young mother of three was undergoing preventative chemotherapy and was saying she would be okay. Doctors from my hospital were on the news describing what they believed she was going through, and one of guesses was that she may have ovarian cancer. (We do not know what type of cancer she has at this time, and several types could impact the abdominal region. Ovarian cancer symptoms are notoriously hard to detect).

I was flooded with memories from 2019 and 2020. A whirlwind surgery, a definitive cancer diagnosis, six chemotherapy treatments, the start of lifelong medication protocols, and cycles of imaging. My first encounter with depression and anxiety, running like a stream through my everyday. 

While I would never wish my experience on anyone, I found myself hoping that she had the same disease as me. What a difference a woman of her status could make for awareness, funding, improving our chances! I also felt a sense of validation. If a woman with infinite resources could have cancer, anyone can have cancer. It’s not our fault.

I saw a post that said the King has been in constant, close contact with the Princess. She’s truly not alone. While my dad's disease was not nearly as advanced as mine and therefore more curable, those early months of his treatment brought us closer than ever. I had someone to go through this with and I wasn’t alone. 

In recent years, preventative screening for several cancers has been recommended to start at younger ages. Over the last five years the chances of having cancer in your lifetime has changed from 1 in 3, to now 1 in 2. While I wish no one had to hear the words “you have cancer,” the fact is many of us will. And hopefully two of the most senior royals in the world hearing those words within weeks of each other will bring more awareness and funding. 

Because of her young age, if she does have ovarian cancer there is a chance it’s low-grade serous ovarian cancer, rare form of the disease that disproportionately impacts younger women like me. That’s why I volunteer with STAAR Ovarian Cancer Foundation, the only US-based charity dedicated to funding LGSOC research.

The recent announcement regarding the Princess of Wales's health has brought forth a flood of emotions and reflections, not just for me, but for many who have faced the challenges of cancer. While I initially speculated about the nature of her condition, the confirmation of her diagnosis serves as a reminder that cancer does not discriminate based on status or resources. It is a universal battle that requires unity, awareness, and funding for research.

As we navigate through our own journeys, whether as patients or supporters, let us continue to advocate for early screening, research advancements, and compassionate care for all those affected by this disease. May the shared experiences of individuals, regardless of royal titles or societal standings, ignite a collective effort towards a future free from the fear of cancer.
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